Tips for Men How to Be a Better Lover
Why do women lie to men about their sexual performance? The primary reason is because women have been socialized to not do or say anything that will be injurious to a man’s ego. Since women have been trained that it is their responsibility to “get and keep a man,” most women, especially African American women, will do pretty much anything to protect their man’s ego and lift him up in every way imaginable. Telling a man that his lovemaking “skills” are not working for you is a challenging thing for many women. They would rather suffer in silence than tell their man that he is not the lover of their dreams.
Ms. HeartBeat’s estimate is that fully 90% of American men do not know what they are doing in bed and are poor lovers. Could poor lovemaking skills by men be one of the key reasons why 75% of American divorces are initiated by women? If women had better sex with their husbands and boyfriends, would they be more willing to stick around?
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Deborrah
Veteran social researcher, relationship advice columnist, author and radio host. Author of hundreds of articles on American and black culture, gender issues, singles, dating and relationships. Author of "Sucka Free Love!" , "The 24 Types of Suckas to Avoid," "The Black Church - Where Women Pray and Men Pray," and "Why Vegan is the New Black" all available on Amazon.Com. Her unique voice and insightful commentary have delighted fans and riled haters for 20 years. Read her stuff on SurvivingDating.Com and AskHeartBeat.Com.
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