Tag: relationship advice

The True Path to a Man’s Heart

. 07/18/2020 . 15 Comments

Women make the mistake of being so giving, so loving, so pleasing, so sweet and gentle to men all the time thinking that is the key to his heart and making him love them more. In reality that shit bores men out of their minds!

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Pastor John Gray and Aventer Gray: The Burden of a Build-a-Man Project

. 11/24/2018 . 0 Comments

From my perspective after listening to Pastor John Gray’s interview on TV ONE, anyone who listens to Pastor John Gray, an admittedly confused and broken man, who depends upon this lost male for spiritual guidance, is seriously in need of a reality check. Such individuals also would appear to have less confidence and belief in themselves, and lower self esteem than Pastor John Gray has in himself.

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Controlling Your Emotions – Why Women Must Stop Making Life Choices Based on FEELINGS

. 10/23/2018 . 0 Comments

Advice columnist Deborrah Cooper points out the many ways women make poor choices about men and life, based on their FEELINGS instead of using logic and reason. She guides the listeners of this Tough Topic Thursday discussion to take a look at emotion-based decision making and how it can be detrimental to success and goal achievement.

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Hypergamy – Why Are MGTOW Men Angry that Women Opt to Marry Up?

. 07/06/2017 . 0 Comments

Women who operate with hypergamy in mind are much more pragmatic than romantic. They are not easily gamed on and not easily manipulated with threats and fear of singleness. A hypergamous woman looks for a man who is going to provide stability, make her life easier, make her children’s life better, be interesting, fun, sexy, exciting, and who wants what she wants out of life.

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Webinar Series on Dating and Relationships with Deborrah Cooper

. 06/24/2017 . 0 Comments

Attend a free webinar with Deborrah Cooper (aka Ms. HeartBeat) on the second Saturday of each month through 2017. Participants will have the chance to discuss hot issues in black culture, dating, relationship violence and abuse, the games men play, better partner communication, and lots more. Register today.

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Ghosting – The Slick Way to End a Dating Relationship

. 03/20/2017 . 0 Comments

Ghosting is the favorite technique of the single to end things when they don’t want to deal with a bunch of drama and emotions. Ghosting explained in both definition and practice.

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MANSPLAINING – Mansplaining Defined

. 03/15/2017 . 0 Comments

What is mansplaining? When men attempt to redefine women’s use of language and nullify women’s experiences with their own vision, you’ve seen mansplaining in action.

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Red Flags of Dating for Single Black Women

. 01/12/2017 . 0 Comments

Are jealousy, insecurity and verbal put-downs considered red flags in a new dating relationship?

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Why Asking Men for Closure is a Dumb Move

. 07/10/2016 . 1 Comment

Women tend to act confused when a guy suddenly leaves “a relationship” and stops taking their calls, responding to their texts, coming over to visit, asking them out, etc. They wanna act all brand new like he was the love of their life and their heart is broken into smithereens about Clown Ass Fool #79. […]

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Shopping for Men is Just Like Shopping for Shoes

. 04/26/2015 . 0 Comments

You’ll see them squeezing their toes into the ill fitting shoe they think is so cute, tiptoeing around some strange gait, or walking barefoot with bunions corns and blisters on their feet because they refused to keep shopping until they find a shoe that fit perfectly. The same mentality women have about shopping for shoes is often the same one they have about shopping for a man.

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10 Texting Rules for Dating Singles – Texting Guidelines and Dating Etiquette

. 02/20/2015 . 2 Comments

Text messaging isn’t necessarily a tool of the devil, but there can be quite a bit of misinterpretation and miscommunication if you don’t follow texting rules. Texting is a great way to stay connected to someone you are madly in love with, and a useful tool to touch base with casual or new dating partners. Ten great texting rules for proper dating etiquette for singles.

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I’m heartbroken wondering if my boyfriend is hanging onto his ex

. 10/26/2014 . 0 Comments

How do you determine if your boyfriend making contact with his ex is just friendly contact to close doors, or if he is trying to get something going again with her?

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