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Are Parents REQUIRED to Help Adult Children?

. 06/26/2020 . 0 Comments

Advice seeker is a single Mom of two toddlers, about to graduate who wonders why her mother won’t allow her to move in for awhile to help ease her burden. Deb explains in detail why the choices we make as adults and the repercussions of those choices are ours and only ours to bear.

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Why Are Single Black Women ALWAYS Told to Settle?

. 09/28/2017 . 0 Comments

An allegedly professional matchmaker goes in on single women telling them they need to sign on to “build a boo” and that their standards are unrealistic and unreasonable. Dating expert Deborrah Cooper of SurvivingDating.Com counters with a solid argument on why single black women settling for less than what they want in a man is the wrong move to make.

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The True Path to a Man’s Heart

. 02/14/2017 . 15 Comments

Women make the mistake of being so giving, so loving, so pleasing, so sweet and gentle to men all the time thinking that is the key to his heart and making him love them more. In reality that shit bores men out of their minds!

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Do Black Men Want a Momma Figure They Can Screw?

. 02/05/2017 . 0 Comments

Infantilized black men are rampant in the black community these days – men who seek to avoid the responsibilities and obligations of adulthood by depending on single black women women to take care of, spoil and nurture them as a replacement momma.

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Black Women – Stop Nurturing Grown Ass Men

. 01/29/2017 . 13 Comments

Black women think it is their job to provide nurturing to grown men in relationships; however I believe such behavior is contributing to the growing number of immature adult babies masquerading as men that fill the Black community and prisons.

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Husband Calls Wife Slut and Whore for Creative Sex Life

. 01/14/2017 . 0 Comments

Wife creates exciting sex life with fantasy stories, but judgmental husband condemns her with vile names like slut and whore.

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Single Women – Get Up on Game for Smarter Dating

. 09/10/2016 . 0 Comments

A series of videos which examine the games black men run on single women and girls to get you to stay with them hoping for more, giving to them in a vacuum, focusing on them in a one-sided relationship, and worrying about keeping THEM happy while they do little to nothing in return for you. You deserve to have a loving union which is fulfilling and supportive…not some one-sided pimp player crap masquerading as “a relationship” that leaves you feeling empty and depleted.

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The “What Other People Said About You” Game of Emotional Abuse

. 08/18/2016 . 0 Comments

In video #18 of “The Manipulative Things Black Men Say to Make Black Women Jump Through Hoops!” series, veteran relationship advice columnist and author Deborrah Cooper breaks down the goals of the “lemme tell you what folks said about you” game of emotional abuse. What is emotional abuse? I define it as any words or […]

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When Black Men Bring Up Butthurt and Bitches from the Past

. 07/29/2016 . 0 Comments

His goal? To control your behavior towards him, and manipulate you with jealousy into bending over backwards and jumping through hoops to prove that you aren’t like those other bitches who hurt him. He has set you up to be in competition with his past, so you (unaware of the game) commence to doing too much to prove that you’re better, more down, a serious ride or die chick that knows how to treat a man!

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Twenty year old woman child abuses her seven year old sister

. 07/16/2016 . 0 Comments

Dear Ms. HeartBeat: My stepdaughter (who is 20 about to be 21 years old) pinched my daughter (age 7) under the arm and it has bruised badly. I asked my husband to deal with it, as he is the biological parent. I was shocked to hear him say that our seven year old daughter deserved it […]

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Why Asking Men for Closure is a Dumb Move

. 07/10/2016 . 1 Comment

Women tend to act confused when a guy suddenly leaves “a relationship” and stops taking their calls, responding to their texts, coming over to visit, asking them out, etc. They wanna act all brand new like he was the love of their life and their heart is broken into smithereens about Clown Ass Fool #79. […]

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Why Black Women Need to Boycott MAC Cosmetics

. 02/27/2016 . 1 Comment

It’s time for black women to get in those corporate pockets. My suggestions: Return shit you bought from MAC Cosmetics. Get your money back because it made you itch. Get your money back because it broke you out. Get your money back because the smell makes you nauseous. Get your money back because you developed a lump on your lip. Make Mac Cosmetics pay for choosing a confused male in a dress over the actual women who made the company what it is today.

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