A series of videos which examine the games black men run on single women and girls to get you to stay with them hoping for more, giving to them in a vacuum, focusing on them in a one-sided relationship, and worrying about keeping THEM happy while they do little to nothing in return for you. You deserve to have a loving union which is fulfilling and supportive…not some one-sided pimp player crap masquerading as “a relationship” that leaves you feeling empty and depleted.
Category: Women’s Issues
In video #18 of “The Manipulative Things Black Men Say to Make Black Women Jump Through Hoops!” series, veteran relationship advice columnist and author Deborrah Cooper breaks down the goals of the “lemme tell you what folks said about you” game of emotional abuse. What is emotional abuse? I define it as any words or […]
His goal? To control your behavior towards him, and manipulate you with jealousy into bending over backwards and jumping through hoops to prove that you aren’t like those other bitches who hurt him. He has set you up to be in competition with his past, so you (unaware of the game) commence to doing too much to prove that you’re better, more down, a serious ride or die chick that knows how to treat a man!
Dear Ms. HeartBeat: My stepdaughter (who is 20 about to be 21 years old) pinched my daughter (age 7) under the arm and it has bruised badly. I asked my husband to deal with it, as he is the biological parent. I was shocked to hear him say that our seven year old daughter deserved it […]
Women tend to act confused when a guy suddenly leaves “a relationship” and stops taking their calls, responding to their texts, coming over to visit, asking them out, etc. They wanna act all brand new like he was the love of their life and their heart is broken into smithereens about Clown Ass Fool #79. […]
It’s time for black women to get in those corporate pockets. My suggestions: Return shit you bought from MAC Cosmetics. Get your money back because it made you itch. Get your money back because it broke you out. Get your money back because the smell makes you nauseous. Get your money back because you developed a lump on your lip. Make Mac Cosmetics pay for choosing a confused male in a dress over the actual women who made the company what it is today.
You never get a second chance to make a first impression. Follow the story of how a 20-something young woman learned the art of dressing well for women, and markedly changed both her social and professional path in just seven days.
Seeing the “potential” in a man is great – if you’re 16. As an adult, what you see is what you get, and no amount of loving support or encouragement will change a man from the man he is to the man you’d like to imagine he can be. If you’re a single woman of the mind that you want a marriage to a great husband, be sure to keep an eye out for these 13 types of high risk dating partners who should NEVER advance to become husbands.
How can you boost your immune system — the bodily functions that fight bacteria, viruses and disease — and give yourself the best opportunity to stay healthy through the winter cold and flu season? This article provides some answers.
You’ll see them squeezing their toes into the ill fitting shoe they think is so cute, tiptoeing around some strange gait, or walking barefoot with bunions corns and blisters on their feet because they refused to keep shopping until they find a shoe that fit perfectly. The same mentality women have about shopping for shoes is often the same one they have about shopping for a man.
My sister’s first baby is due in three months and I’m wondering if we’re obligated to throw a baby shower for her? A few people have already commented that they wouldn’t be coming if we did throw a baby shower, because they’re pissed they never received a ‘thank you’ note from my sister from her wedding two years ago.