Category: Men’s Issues

Men That Don’t Take Responsibility For a Pregnancy Are Punk Bitches!

Men That Don’t Take Responsibility For a Pregnancy Are Punk Bitches!

I’m tired of hearing Black men whine that they aren’t ready to be a father and that he shouldn’t have to pay child support for a kid he didn’t want. Look here fool… if you are having sex bare with a woman you know is fertile, you are ready to be a father whether you affirm it vocally or not. Actions speak louder than words. You are doing everything it takes to become a father, right? So what are you talking about you ain’t ready?

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Exposing Black Male Privilege

Exposing Black Male Privilege

Deborrah Cooper | 09/01/2010 | Comments (6)

I’ve repeatedly heard Black men express the belief that they are victims of a matriarchial society, that they are denied rights and privileges and the opportunity to “be a man” by “strong Black women.” I’ve heard grown men whine that women need to be responsible for men’s attire (sagging pants), teen pregnancy amonst 11, 12, 13 year old girls (who are actually victimis of child molesters, not willing adults making a choice for sex), and assign to women the responsibility for changing the Black community. With women being blamed for all that, what the hell is it that Black men are going to get off their asses and do?

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How Nice Guys Can Develop The Player Edge That Women Love

How Nice Guys Can Develop The Player Edge That Women Love

Raz | 08/31/2010 | Comments (12)

Despite what the media says, women don’t necessarily look for men with nice, sensitive personalities. Women look for romantic intoxication. In plain language women go for men who can turn them on!

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Why “Nice” Guys Suck and Women Don’t Want You!

Why “Nice” Guys Suck and Women Don’t Want You!

Being a “nice guy” does not win you any brownie points in the dating game! Never has, never will. You win at dating when you give the opposite sex what they want.

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Why Black Women Put Professional Black Men on ‘NIGNORE’

Why Black Women Put Professional Black Men on ‘NIGNORE’

Men write me frequently to get my take on why Black women complain that they “can’t find a good Black man” or “can’t find a Black man on my level” when they are surrounded by educated, professional Black men. It made me wonder too. Why a guy, with all the outward appearances of a highly desirable catch (college educated, established, an “on point” Black man) would be passed over by women for romance and marriage. Well, I have some answers.

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Do Most Black Men Have Low Self-Esteem?

Do Most Black Men Have Low Self-Esteem?

Deborrah Cooper | 05/04/2010 | Comments (3)

Men with low self esteem can frequently be heard blaming other people (typically women), for their failures and shortcomings, refusing to take responsibility for their negative behaviors or lack of action. These Black men blame the demise of the Black family on Black women instead of themselves for leaving their children behind. This is why Black men blame pregnancies on Black women instead of themselves for not maintaining strict control over their sperm. This is why uneducated Black men are angry at educated Black women for having standards and expectations in a man that excludes them, as they don’t measure up.

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Why Women Ignore Men

Why Women Ignore Men

Deborrah Cooper | 03/09/2010 | Comments (3)

Males wondering why women don’t give them “the eye” or respond with interest to their presence might want to review their social skills and interactions with females. If you regularly start conversations with “Why aren’t you married?” or “So where is your husband tonight?” or “When’s the last time you had sex?” you probably won’t receive much positive attention from women. Dork.

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Father’s Rights and Violence Against Women

Father’s Rights and Violence Against Women

The fathers’ rights movement focuses on trying to re-establish fathers’ authority and control over their children’s and ex-partners’ lives, on gaining an equality concerned with fathers’ ‘rights’ and status rather than the actual care of children, and on winding back legal and cultural changes which have lessened gender inequalities. Fathers’ rights groups are well-organised advocates for changes in family law, and vocal opponents of feminist perspectives and achievements on interpersonal violence.

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It’s Just a Woman’s Power

It’s Just a Woman’s Power

Deborrah Cooper | 09/01/2009 | Comments (1)

A mature man comments on the female powers of observation and shares a little advice with the fellas… “Men we now have to start coming clean using truth and honesty if we hope to keep our women. This knowledge has me a little paranoid when I meet a woman… now is she looking at me from the inside out? That can’t be a pretty sight because I got issues. Not being as handsome as most and now I know I’m certainly not as smart, I have to be more honest and forthright to attract the opposite sex.”

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Men Want to Know: What Do Women Want?

Men Want to Know: What Do Women Want?

Deborrah Cooper | 08/08/2009 | Comments (1)

Men are confused about what exactly it is that women want. I am here to tell you guys “You have the power to make her childhood fairy tale fantasies of a hero come true!” With a little effort, any man can incorporate these seven points into his dating bag of tricks. Follow these guidelines and and do all you can to become the man a woman is looking for. You can easily inspire women’s respect, passion, and love – and your single days will be over.

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How Religion Messes Up the Minds of Men

How Religion Messes Up the Minds of Men

Deborrah Cooper | 08/01/2009 | Comments (0)

Black men feel they deserve to be in charge and run their woman and household without question. Is this truly the relationship that modern Black men expect and feel they deserve… straight out of 1800? Could these expectations be the real reason Black women are not marrying… they recognize the game and are waking up and refusing to place themselves under the foot of a male that believes he is superior to women? Controversial examination of religion, Christianity, and the ego of the Black male.

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For Men: The Difference Between Interest and Desperation

For Men: The Difference Between Interest and Desperation

Deborrah Cooper | 07/11/2009 | Comments (0)

He Says/She Says tackles the issue of rejection and dating for men. The authos explain the difference between showing interest in a woman and presenting oneself as desperate. Developing the ability to confidently show interest and approach a woman means guys must change their perspective and not be so attached to the outcome.

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