Why Men With No Game Fail With Women
The so-called “good men” complain that women choose style over substance and prefer players. At least the playa steps up! Even if he just wants to play he presents himself with energy and charisma while the ‘men of substance’ just stand around too scared to approach or speak up, then they get angry and want to condemn women for being with “the wrong man.”
Did you “good men” ever consider that maybe you need to tighten up your game?
Your goodness doesn’t mean shit in the dating game dudes! Logic, reason and what you think “should” happen does not apply here. Emotions and relationships are not about logic, reason and what makes sense! Relationships are about what you do and what you say, and how what you do and what you say MAKES WOMEN FEEL.
Maybe you would have gotten picked too if you had approached instead of sitting back on your butt waiting for a woman to approach YOU. If you had done any of the things that would make a woman attracted to you, then you might have some success with women. I’m gonna lay it down for men confused about what to say when approaching a woman and how to say it to get results!
Deborrah
Veteran social researcher, relationship advice columnist, author and radio host. Author of hundreds of articles on American and black culture, gender issues, singles, dating and relationships. Author of "Sucka Free Love!" , "The 24 Types of Suckas to Avoid," "The Black Church - Where Women Pray and Men Pray," and "Why Vegan is the New Black" all available on Amazon.Com. Her unique voice and insightful commentary have delighted fans and riled haters for 20 years. Read her stuff on SurvivingDating.Com and AskHeartBeat.Com.
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