Actions Speak Louder Than Words?

. 08/15/2010 . 1 Comment

Dear Ms. HeartBeat:
What questions can I ask my man to see if he’s really interested in me or more interested in what I have to offer?

Ms. HeartBeat Responds:
There are no such questions, not really. You just carefully watch what he does and listen to what he says, and make sure his words and actions are in sync. Asking direct questions expecting to get the honest truth is not necessarily the best approach.

Why?

Because a man trying to game on you for what you have to offer will just tell you what he knows you want to hear! What people can’t do well is hide how they truly feel about you over time.

How a man treats you and how consistently respectful he acts towards you is the most honest reflection of what is going on with him emotionally and mentally.

Always pay more attention to a man’s actions than you ever do his words.

MsHeartBeat

Dating expert and advice columnist since 1993, writing as Ms. HeartBeat. Author of the hilarious street smart dating guide "Sucka Free Love - How to Avoid Dating The Dumb, The Deceitful, The Dastardly, The Dysfunctional & The Deranged."

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