Actions Speak Louder Than Words?

| 08/15/2010 | Comments (1)

Dear Ms. HeartBeat:
What questions can I ask my man to see if he’s really interested in me or more interested in what I have to offer?

Ms. HeartBeat Responds:
There are no such questions, not really. You just carefully watch what he does and listen to what he says, and make sure his words and actions are in sync. Asking direct questions expecting to get the honest truth is not necessarily the best approach.


Because a man trying to game on you for what you have to offer will just tell you what he knows you want to hear! What people can’t do well is hide how they truly feel about you over time.

How a man treats you and how consistently respectful he acts towards you is the most honest reflection of what is going on with him emotionally and mentally.

Always pay more attention to a man’s actions than you ever do his words.

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  1. Julie dover says:

    WOW, His actions are worth a thousands words. I presently like a guy who is approximately 13 years younger.

    When i am in his presence it is laughter, serious conversation. I enjoy his company

    However he doesn’t call when says he will and you never know when he will contact

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