Why Women Leave Men
Women complain frequently that their boyfriends don’t meet their relationship needs. They accuse their partners of not showing interest in who they are or what they do, their dreams, nor their desires. Feeling abandoned and alone in the marriage is a common occurrence, with some women saying that their men only show them affection and even a semblance of romance when he wants sex. I also hear things like:
- “He never wants to be with me or do things with me anymore. I feel like I’ve lost my best friend.”
- “I feel like we’re strangers just circling each other in our home”
- “When things happen with the children or the house, I am forced to handle it all alone because he’s always too busy. He’s never there for us when we need him.”
- “He frequently says things to me in a sharp nasty tone of voice like he is scolding a child or like I’m stupid. It really hurts my feelings when he talks to me like that and he never apologizes for it.”
- “He’ll tell me that we are going to go out together that evening so I get dressed and ready to go, then he doesn’t come home until hours later… acting like he forgot. Once maybe, but this has happened over and over again. “
- “He’s so insensitive and cold. When I try to hug him he pushes me away. I wonder who is this man. Did I ever really know who he is? Was he just pretending to love me?”
- “We fight all the time because everything I do he says I did it wrong. He criticizes me about everything and it breaks my heart.”
- “I can’t talk to him, its too exhausting. Our communication sucks. Everything I say he takes out of context and twists it around to be something else. I keep having to explain and explain myself.”
- “Do men ever listen to women? It seems he is always talking over me, interrupting me, and looking impatient when I am trying to tell him something. He happily tells me his thoughts and opinions and problems but he never wants to listen to anything I have to say.”
Men don’t seem to understand how important it is to see their woman as special and important. Not just showing her appreciation, but showing her respect, kindness and love. Focusing on your woman and providing her with what she needs emotionally guarantees a happy, long-lasting relationship with a woman that will never leave you.
Advice columnist Deborrah Cooper provides tips for relationship success and longevity to men.
Deborrah
Veteran social researcher, relationship advice columnist, author and radio host. Author of hundreds of articles on American and black culture, gender issues, singles, dating and relationships. Author of "Sucka Free Love!" , "The 24 Types of Suckas to Avoid," "The Black Church - Where Women Pray and Men Pray," and "Why Vegan is the New Black" all available on Amazon.Com. Her unique voice and insightful commentary have delighted fans and riled haters for 20 years. Read her stuff on SurvivingDating.Com and AskHeartBeat.Com.
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