Men Are Not Qualified to Lead Women or Relationships

. 08/07/2010 . 25 Comments

I’m tired of men that don’t have their shit together, that lack self-discipline, that have no goals for their lives, are irresponsible and misogynistic in attitude tell me that as MEN, they have the right to lead women… that women must submit to them.

One of the chief things men say, especially Black men, is that Black women won’t “let Black men lead.” That is now and has always been a curious statement to me. How can a mere woman, someone you say has no power at all, STOP you from doing anything… I mean, since you are such a studly man and all?

The real question is if we remove religion from the equation, what is it that makes men feel they must be the leader? And if it is true, as some men say, that men are destructive when left to their own devices and need women to lead them in other directions, then who is the real leader here?

I say that men are not natural leaders, they are natural followers… WOMEN are actually the natural leaders of men, of households, of the world. The only problem is that most Black women have been socialized to believe in Christianity, which tells Black men totally unqualified for leadership in every way but scripture quoting that they are leaders of women. What a bunch of hogwash!

That garbage pissed me off so much that I made my first video and posted it up on You Tube. Your comments are welcome.

Deborrah

Veteran social researcher, relationship advice columnist, author and radio host. Author of hundreds of articles on American and black culture, gender issues, singles, dating and relationships. Author of "Sucka Free Love!" , "The 24 Types of Suckas to Avoid," "The Black Church - Where Women Pray and Men Pray," and "Why Vegan is the New Black" all available on Amazon.Com. Her unique voice and insightful commentary have delighted fans and riled haters for 20 years. Read her stuff on SurvivingDating.Com and AskHeartBeat.Com.

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