Why “Nice” Guys Suck and Women Don’t Want You!
In the world of male/female romantic relationships, females do the choosing. Women respond most positively to men that exhibit specific behavioral attitudes and qualities. Nice guys feel that women should choose them. Wrong! Let me tell you why guys perceived to be “too nice” get passed over for exciting guys with a bad boy edge.
There are many men that feel they are a “nice guy” and that women are crazy to pass them over. Well, I have some news for you dudes.
Nobody cares that you are “nice.”
See, the problem is that “nice” guys put themselves on some sort of pedestal. Nice guys like to think they are superior to other men, that they are better at relationships, and that by virtue of their “niceness” are more deserving of a woman’s romantic attentions.
From experience I can tell you that “nice” guys are not as nice as they like to think. Most “nice guys” are whiney, close-minded, judgmental, spineless, controlling, and weak. Women do not like weak, whiney, judgmental men. Ergo, women do not like “nice” guys.
Women want MEN – decisive, action oriented, determined, aggressive. Sadly, sometimes that comes bundled with a liar and a cheat which is what the “nice” guys point to and the reason they say women are crazy.
But who said that every woman SHOULD want a “nice” guy? Who made that a law? Why do “nice” guys condemn women for choosing thrill seeking, impulsive men with a bad boy edge? In other words, choices that exclude “nice” guys?
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