Auditioning to be a Wife…WTF do You do THAT for?

. 09/11/2010 . 6 Comments

Some women feel they need to show a man what kind of partner they would make by doing wifely duties like cook, clean, have children, buy homes, dogs, create businesses, etc.  But there is no commitment from this guy, and often no signs of it either. But you persist and continue to try to “earn” his love and commitment.

Women get started on this path early by placing too much importance on what a man SAYS while often totally ignoring what a man DOES that is in conflict with those words of love, romance and passionate commitment.  You eat up his fanciful words and start imagining that you have a relationship that you don’t really have – a solid relationship.

If you believe that a man saying “I might be thinking about falling in love with you” or “you keep this up, you will be the one for me” mean something important, then you really need to take a look at this video. Men can lie with words very easily, but they cannot lie with their actions.  Men will also say anything they think you want to hear to keep your bedroom door open to him. Get smarter girlfriend, and check out this video.

Deborrah

Veteran social researcher, relationship advice columnist, author and radio host. Author of hundreds of articles on American and black culture, gender issues, singles, dating and relationships. Author of "Sucka Free Love!" , "The 24 Types of Suckas to Avoid," "The Black Church - Where Women Pray and Men Pray," and "Why Vegan is the New Black" all available on Amazon.Com. Her unique voice and insightful commentary have delighted fans and riled haters for 20 years. Read her stuff on SurvivingDating.Com and AskHeartBeat.Com.

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