Why Men Worry About Your Past

a guy: "There is something special about a virtuous woman."

You would never know a woman who a woman slept with unless she told you. So the only thing special is you psyching yourself out on that Christian beliefs. What is virtuous is how two people love and support each other in a relationship, not who they slept with before either of them were involved with the other. By focusing on the past, men undermine the present. Men need to get over questioning a woman on what she's done with her vjay before they came into the picture. It's none of their business. They don't own it, it's hers. Worry about what you're going to do to please her now that she's with you.

In a loving trusting relationship, I think the man will eventually get over it. In situations like this it takes a lot of quality time (years) for some men to develop a sense of security with his woman. He can't help feeling the way he does though.

Men like this need to either
a) Be chaste and marry a chaste woman
or
b) Screw 100 women or more till he gets over his sensitivity to the issue.

I can't fault your logic though. You make some good points.

Unless she told you how many she had, you would never know. Your statement is exactly why I tell women that they need to keep their damn mouths shut and stop telling men all their business because you all cannot handle the truth when it comes to female sexuality. You want to think you own the pussy or something!

@ Dasugo "I don’t appreciate a woman with prior sexual expertise. I will accept one because life isn’t clean cut like that.
One thing I will be loathe to accept is my woman having more sexual partners than me. Not an option."

I know what you mean Dasugo. I also don't appreciate a man with prior sexual expertise either. I will accept one because life isn't clean cut like that. One thing I will be loathe to accept is my man having more sexual partners than me. Not an option'.
I'm right there with you Dude. My man has got to be sexually inexperienced. He can't have any expertise on how to make me feel good in bed. I want him to come with no knowledge so he can fumble and learn while he's with me even if that means he doesn't know what to do to please me sexually and I've got to teach him everything from A to Z. It's better for me to have unsatisfactory sex with a sexually inexperienced guy than to have great sex with a man who from the start knows how to make me feel good in bed.

I addressed this stupidity in male thinking in my article "The Male Attempt to Control Female Sexuality." Your post merely reflects that selfishness and entitlement that males feel to a woman's vagina, the ownership and control you think you deserve to have. Well you don't. It's her body to do with what she pleases.

This is exactly why I advocate that women lie to men that start asking about how many men a woman as slept with. You deserve to have a woman lie to you as much as possible on this subject, which is something you have no business asking about.

There is no different dynamic at all, other than the one men have been socialized to have - that speaks of your thinking that you are superior to women in every way possible. You have sex with who you want, then you get up and get on and women have the right to do the same.

Ladies hear me on this - your body doesn't need to be any more special for HIM than he has kept himself for YOU. If he was hoing around, he has no right to expect to get a woman virginal pure as the driven snow and needs to shut the hell up.

Or possibly you are not worthy of his.