Black women must stop believing they are required to “work with a brotha” when said Black male is beneath her, lagging, lacking in certain vital areas of performance and qualifications. Black women deserve to have what they want and need in a mate, just like women of other races.
A real life example of how compromise can be an injurious thing for a woman’s self-esteem and treatment in a relationship. When is it okay to compromise and when should a woman stand her ground?
Learn the games men play in dating relationships and how to protect yourself. Avoid heartbreak and being used by learning when and how to say NO! to silly games.
Women can’t stand empty silences and will fill the quiet with information about their past, laying them out like an offering to the Man Gods. Why clog a man’s brain with information that will do nothing but make him jealous or insecure about a future with you? Women also tell too much of their business to jealous females. It would be best if women learned to shut up!
The first thing some men do after talking on the phone a time or two is press for an invitation to a woman’s home. Their idea of a date is spending time together relaxing on your couch… in close proximity to the bedroom. A “no, I don’t know you well enough yet” response may cause such a man to press even harder or become downright irritated at your refusal to give him what he wants. What is behind this increasingly common behavior pattern, and what should women do to counter it?
Many women feel guilty about a man paying for their dates; others don’t want to feel obligated in any way. But if you like a guy, refusing to allow him the opportunity to pamper you means you’re keeping him at arms length emotionally.
Anytime a man’s behavior and pattern changes, it means something. Women need to pay attention to the signs.
Many young women are dating older men without a clue as to the differences they will encounter in the future. Men have left marriages for women 10+ years younger, gone into depressions, had children late in life they regret having, and much more.
You want the security of knowing where you stand in a relationship, but shouldn’t you first take the time to know the character and history of the man you are committing to?
Have any of you ladies ever gone hunting or fishing? You should try it sometimes. Fishing alongside your man provides you with a study in patience, planning and understanding the wierd workings of the male mind.
There is a social attack on women’s bodies and self esteem, with the everyday women being compared in looks and performance to porn stars. Who stands to profit from women feeling bad about themselves? Advice columnist Deborrah Cooper provides her usual insightful analysis into several disturbing new trends that affect women and their bodies.
I know I’m stupid but I forgive him every time he calls and explains how hard it is on him to be without me in his life. How can I know if he’s using me for sex?
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