Sex is Not Free: All Relationships Are a Business
Sex is not free. Never has been and never will be. Any woman that gives it away for free is a fool. You are either trading it to men for fabulous dates and allowing them time around you and the opportunity to spend money on you, or you are trading it for a ring. When a man locks it down with a ring, he is doing so because he wants exclusive rights to take you on fabulous dates, time around you and the exclusive opportunity to spend his money on you for the rest of his life in the set up we call “marriage.”
But all relationships are about dick and pussy. That’s it and that’s all. If you think anything else, you are stupid.
Pussy Costs Money – Together Men Know That but Broke Men Try to Get Over
Men that are about something know that it costs money to attract and keep a woman. However, the broke dudes are the ones crying about how they need a woman to help them, be there for them, support them, and do for them. They have nothing to offer, nothing to give but some idle conversation and some sex, and they think you are supposed to be happy with that.
Dumb bitches are. They think dick is a commodity and to have one means something special.
Ladies, understand that you must set boundaries with men. You must also understand that your body is precious and has value. But niggas will try to get you to forget that when its to their benefit. See, they want you to have boundaries and standards with OTHER men, because that makes you a “good woman.”
But they suddenly want you to forget all about your standards and boundaries and the value you place on yourself when it comes to HIM, and in his frustration and anger he will refer to you as nothing but a ho, selling her pussy to the highest bidder.
Broke men try to act stupid, like they don’t get that it costs money to keep up the pussy. However, they know the deal. But what they also know is if you are too stupid to demand more from them, and are willing to play yourself cheap, they are going to take whatever you give them and give you little to nothing in return. They will let you spend all your money and expend massive amounts of effort trying to please them while they whine about how you don’t do enough, criticize and judge what you do, condemn you for not helping them, then turn around and cheat on you anyway. No matter how many hoops you’ve jumped through.
The man who understands relationships are a business will strive to get his shit together at a pretty young age. These are the men who know they must get themselves together educationally, professionally, emotionally and socially to be considered worthy mates for a quality woman. They know that woman and her family will judge him by WHAT HE HAS ACCOMPLISHED, and WHAT HE CAN DO FOR THEIR DAUGHTER. These guys know not to come empty handed talking about a bunch of dreams they have yet actualize.
In other words, smart men know they must invest in the woman they want. They like their pussy to look a certain way, smell a certain way, to be dressed a certain way, to be accessorized a certain way, the body to be tight and in a specific shape. All that beautification costs money and they know it, so they contribute to the cause.
Bottom line – men do not date stupid, ugly ass women that can’t fuck and they certainly won’t marry them.
And in spite of the fact that some cheap men expressed concern that women teaching their daughters this information would be teaching them prostitution, the reality is that these cheap men are just worried that they will be frozen out and be pussyless. Dudes, you need to get over themselves. In reality more women need to teach their daughters the value of pussy and stop telling them to give their bodies and their sex away for “love”.
Love don’t pay NO BILLS. Love does not put you in a nice house. Love does not provide you with romantic weekend getaways to Aspen or Mexico or the Caribbean, your children with a college education or great family vacations.
Why Relationships Are About The Benjamins
Love makes women get involved with some ignorant, broke, stupid fools. Love will have you strung out over an incarcerated fool with no prospects when he gets out, and no sense – otherwise he wouldn’t have gotten caught. Love will get you stuck on stupid and left dazed and confused with some broke fool’s baby, struggling to take care of it all by yourself.
One of the top things women seek in a man is that he be a “good provider.” Financial stability is important to women and always has been. Smart men, raised to be husbands, know this is their role and one of the standards they must meet for manhood. Ain’t no woman of intelligence trying to marry a man that she does not see as “a good provider”.
Now ladies, WTF do you think that “being a good provider” means??? What it means is that man is capable of PAYING FOR THE PUSSY!
When a man brags that he “holds it down like a man should” or “his ends is meeting like a muhfugga” or he describes himself as “a great provider for his wife and family” — those things mean he is a man proud of the fact that he makes enough money to PAY for the upkeep and maintenance of his PUSSY in grand style! He understands that relationships are a business and he handles his. This is the man that deserves your heart and your devoted love.
Relationships are a Business – Run Yours Properly!
Ladies, you must run your relationships like a business. No one should be “hired” for the position of your man unless he meets high standards and brings the proper experience, maturity, and focus to the company.
Remember, what you have or are already doing for yourself by yourself is irrelevant. It doesn’t matter that you have a job, nor does it matter what assets you already have! If a man coming into your world is not going to bring assets and improve the bottom line of your existence financially, emotionally, psychologically, spiritually and materially, then he is not worthy of your time.
In business language – if a man cannot improve the profitability, market penetration and P/E ratio of your business (aka life), then he should be passed over and should NEVA get no pussy from you. He ain’t deserving.
THAT is how you manage The Business of Relationships.
If more black women did that, all broke niggas would either get their shit together, or screw each other. But they wouldn’t get to touch women.
If you are a black woman that believes your enjoyment of sex is enough and that he didn’t get free pussy… you got free dick, or that it’s just sex and has nothing to do with what a man does to get it, you are stupid. You also play right into the hands of broke niggas that have no desire to do more, be more or give a woman anything… they just want to get their dick wet.
If you are a black woman that allows a nigga come over to your house empty handed, sit on your couch, fuck you and call that ‘a date’ you are stupid.
If you are a black woman that thinks what is being said here about knowing your value makes women out to be nothing more than prostitutes, and you want have sex with any guy that you think is cute, have at it with your Kmart Blue Light Special Discount self. Please know that you are also stupid.
If you are a black woman that lets a nigga tie up your dating, sex and money making opportunities for the future by having his baby and you ain’t married, you are stupid.
If you want to get married to said nigga but he is fucking for free prior to marriage, he has no incentive to marry you and so he won’t which means you are stupid.
Relationships are a business. May sound harsh, but it’s real.
Read part four of “Are Black Women Stupid: Stupid Black Women, Vaginal Purity and Wife Worthiness”
Also, check out comedian Jerry LaVigne, Jr. as he talks about the reality of Pussy Payments
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