Why Does My Boyfriend Always Claim to be Broke?
At first he treated her like a queen with romantic dinners and wine at sunset on the beach; but now he claims to be broke, even the day after payday. What kind of pimp game is this running?
Deborrah
Dating advice columnist on AskHeartBeat.Com and Examiner.Com; hosts the Date Smarter Not Harder Relationships Talk Show on BlogTalkRadio every Sunday evening at 5:30 pm (PST). She is the author of hundreds of articles on dating and relationships, and penned the Best Black Books of 2007 award-winning guide to modern dating "Sucka Free Love! How to Avoid Dating The Dumb, The Deceitful, The Dastardly, The Dysfunctional & The Deranged." Sucka Free Love is a hilarious, street smart examination of the mistakes singles make in relationships - find it on Amazon.Com.
Match.Com’s Singles Survey Means Nothing for Black Women
Though the Match.Com 2012 Singles Survey is an impressive undertaking, I would caution Black women to avoid viewing the findings as anything more than humorous entertainment. This is a study primarily of White people for White people, and therefore it has little to do with the very real cultural differences in values and socialization of African Americans.
When Valentine’s Day Sucks!
The day after Valentine’s Day is the #1 day of the year for women to cheat. With that fact in mind, why do so many men stubbornly refuse to romance their woman and show appreciation on Valentine’s Day?
Valentine’s Day and Selfish Ass Men
Why do so many single Black men resent Valentine’s Day and refuse to do anything special for the woman they claim to love? Why do so many Black women accept being ignored on Valentine’s Day by their man?
Margaret Sanger and the Eradication of the Black Race Using Planned Parenthood
Margaret Sanger has been accused by Black men of starting Planned Parenthood for the sole purpose of eradicating the black race. Are Black women to be denied the right to birth control and abortions to satisfy the demands of black nationalists?
Cheating in Relationships – Three Days of the Year Women Are Most Likely to Cheat
Smart men pay attention to their women. Those that don’t are likely to find out the hard way that their woman is getting her needs met elsewhere. There are three days of each year that women are more prone to cheating, and Valentine’s Day is one of them.
Tips for Men How to Be a Better Lover
How can men divorce proof their relationships? Putting in time, energy and effort to understand a woman’s body and sexual intimacy needs will go a long way towards lowering the divorce rate and becoming a better lover. Arrogance has no place in the bedroom fellas. Listen and learn!
Black Women Need to Help a Brotha and Date Single Black Men With Potential?
Black women must stop believing they are required to “work with a brotha” when said Black male is beneath her, lagging, lacking in certain vital areas of performance and qualifications. Black women deserve to have what they want and need in a mate, just like women of other races.
Why Do Black Men Always Ask Me if I Go to Church?
What kind of game is being run by Black men that ask if a woman goes to church immediately upon meeting her? You don’t know? Read and learn baby girl, read and learn.
Female Submission in Dating and Marriage: Why Should Women Submit to Men?
Tonight we’ll discuss female submission in Black relationships, the pros and cons of submission if any, and the reasons Black men demand that Black women submit to them. Who really benefits from submission by women?
Is Polygyny a Viable Option for Single Black Women Seeking Marriage?
Can polygamous marriages really be the answer to the large numbers of single African American women in the U.S.? Black men say yes and that polygyny should be legalized. What do you have to say about polygyny – a man having more than one wife?
Survey on Polygyny – What is Your Stance on Polygamous Marriages
What is your stance on polygyny and polygamous marriages? Is polygamy really a viable solution to the high number of single Black women in the U.S. or just a game Black men want to play for sex?
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