MsHeartBeat

Dating expert and advice columnist since 1993, writing as Ms. HeartBeat. Author of the hilarious street smart dating guide "Sucka Free Love - How to Avoid Dating The Dumb, The Deceitful, The Dastardly, The Dysfunctional & The Deranged."

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So what he died of an overdose, he still deserves respect!

. 03/26/2012 . 1 Comment

The crass crudeness of some people is examined when a family’s website to memorialize a deceased member of their clan is bombarded with negativity.

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I am in Love With Him, but Very Unhappy in My Relationship

. 03/24/2012 . 0 Comments

Does a man with wavy hair and a body like Tyson sound like husband material? A young black woman with no clue about how to select a man for marriage writes to seek guidance on her relationship.

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Marriage and Cheating: I Think my Husband is Having an Affair at Work

. 03/19/2012 . 0 Comments

A marriage of only one year is headed for disaster when a husband ignores his wife, 18 month old child, and focuses all his attentions on a woman at his new job.

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Interracial Dating Advice: White Female Afraid to Cross the Color Line

. 03/08/2012 . 0 Comments

Interracial dating advice for a young White female with a professed interest in a Black male, wrestling with her fears of crossing the color line and going into unfamiliar and possibly racially charged territory.

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My New Husband is a Lazy Bum That Leaves All the Work for Me

. 02/28/2012 . 5 Comments

New bride’s dreams of happily ever after shattered by husband’s selfishness and callous disregard for her feelings and needs. Can this new wife stop enabling, learn how to say “no!” and turn her unhappy relationship around?

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To Ride or Not to Ride My Baby’s Momma?

. 02/25/2012 . 0 Comments

Advice on how to navigate a relationship with his son, his son’s mother, and the new fiancee over time spent and parental responsibilities in a baby momma situation..

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Pregnant by a Nothing Ass Man in Prison

. 02/15/2012 . 0 Comments

Dramatic breakup and probation violation lands drug using boyfriend in prison for three years; should his girlfriend (potential baby momma #5) have the child she is carrying?

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Uh oh! I think my roommate is trying to put the moves on me

. 02/07/2012 . 0 Comments

An unusual request has a young man wondering if his roommate is hiding his sexuality. Can a young man that beds dozens of women have hidden gay tendencies or fantasies?

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Does Not Telling All Your Business Mean You’re Telling Lies?

. 02/06/2012 . 0 Comments

To avoid being scammed or suffering identity theft, Ms. HeartBeat advises women to keep financial and sexual info to themselves. A reader is livid and says she is telling women to lie to men that deserve to know all a woman’s business. Can men really handle the truth about a woman’s past?

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My Girlfriend is Ruining Our Sex Life

. 02/05/2012 . 2 Comments

A young man writes to seek advice about a problem in his sex life. He wants his girl to do things that she says makes her gag and disgust her. He is frustrated beyond all belief. Can this relationship be saved… should it be?

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Single Woman Angry Married Man Sees Her Only When Convenient

. 01/06/2012 . 4 Comments

Single woman dating and in love with a married man is apparently confused about her role in his life, so she writes to complain about a lack of trust and feeling used.

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You Give Black Women Too Much Credit!

. 11/02/2011 . 5 Comments

A writer condemns Black women for not knowing how to choose a mate; Ms. HeartBeat breaks the whole dating and marriage process down so that even simpletons like this guy can understand that its all men’s fault.

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