Beware of the Verbally Abusive Man Hiding in Plain Sight

. 09/01/2010 . 10 Comments

It really doesn’t matter why a man is verbally or psychologically abusive towards females, nor does it matter if the undercover abuse is purposeful or not, the damage to a woman’s self esteem and emotional stability if she listens to that bullshit is exactly the same, and it can be quite considerable.

I’ve found that women who repeatedly get involved with these undercover abusive men have typically personally experienced or witnessed abuse within their environments during childhood.  Repeated exposure to domestic violence between the parents, or suffering of childhood sexual abuse or battery herself tends to normalize abusive behavior in adult relationships.

A woman may quickly recognize and easily draw the line at physical abuse which involves being slapped, punched or pushed around.  We all know what THAT type of abuse looks like!  However, women from an abusive background are not usually as alert to more subtle signs and signals of psychological and verbal abuse the way a “healthy” woman would be.

If you think you might have this recognition problem, this video can teach you how to recognize unacceptable abusive behaviors early in a new dating relationship, before you get too deeply involved and before you get hurt.  You’ll be able to quickly extricate yourself from unhealthy relationships and interactions with sick men that are no good for you or even for themselves.

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