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The “What Other People Said About You” Game of Emotional Abuse
In video #18 of “The Manipulative Things Black Men Say to Make Black Women Jump Through Hoops!” series, veteran relationship advice columnist and author Deborrah Cooper breaks down the goals of the “lemme tell you what folks said about you” game of emotional abuse. What is emotional abuse? I define it as any words or […]
When Black Men Bring Up Butthurt and Bitches from the Past
His goal? To control your behavior towards him, and manipulate you with jealousy into bending over backwards and jumping through hoops to prove that you aren’t like those other bitches who hurt him. He has set you up to be in competition with his past, so you (unaware of the game) commence to doing too much to prove that you’re better, more down, a serious ride or die chick that knows how to treat a man!
What it Means When a Single Black Man Says I’m Not Ready
If you want marriage and children, does it make sense to wait around for years and years, investing more time and energy into a man who has already told you that he is not ready for all that and doesn’t know when he will be? Advice columnist, social researcher and dating expert Deborrah Cooper discusses the frustrating but extremely common issue of the man who gives mixed messages by saying one thing and doing another.
Manipulative Shit Black Men Say to Make Black Women Jump Through Hoops
Smooth talk works because black women tend to be very auditory. My hope is that after listening to this series, single black women can quickly identify the sincere guy from the gaming bullshit artist, enabling you to choose wisely to spend your time ONLY with the man who is on the same page in the same book of life that you are.
Internet Stalking – When Niqqas Stalk to Insult and Demean
A person who calls himself a man, yet goes from site to site focused on ONE WOMAN HE DOESN’T KNOW is nothing but an internet stalker. He wants your attention but knows you wouldn’t give him the time of day even if he were the last man on earth. So he comes out the gate like a little boy calling names and hurling what he thinks are insults.
Change the Game: The Art of Dressing Well for Women
You never get a second chance to make a first impression. Follow the story of how a 20-something young woman learned the art of dressing well for women, and markedly changed both her social and professional path in just seven days.
Guess What Ms. HeartBeat – I’m Dating a Stripper!
Do you think we can have a healthy and lengthy relationship? I really don’t have a problem with where she works if I don’t think about it too much. I mean if we started dating before she started stripping and she told me she wanted to be a stripper, I would totally be against it. But since it’s what she was doing when I met her, I accept it because I feel that I don’t have the right to change her or ask her to change.
7-21-13 Black Men vs White Men Which Is Better for the Modern Black Woman?
Black men are falling further behind socially, economically and educationally, and they tend to insist on a double sexual standard, female submission, and male dominance as a matter of course. In spite of these glaring losses in stock value, most black men still see themselves as a prize. “Everyone wants us, but nobody wants you!” is the taunt often levied at black females.
Rhetoric Fatigue Syndrome (RFS) Symptoms and Pathology in Black Women
Rhetoric Fatigue Syndrome or RFS is a recently recognized affliction suffered by millions of black women, most of whom are unaware of the disease or its symptoms such as SICKOFYOURSHITitis and NIGGAPLEASEitis.
Day 12 – 40 Days of Rain on DBR Black Men: Booty Bandits Demanding Anal Sex
Another problem I have with this mindset is that DBR black men put the responsibility for keeping their sex life from being stale on black women and anal sex. In other words, her anus has the onus.
Day 11 – 40 Days of Rain on DBR Black Men: Failure to be Chivalrous
Chivalrous behavior is exhibited by men of high moral fiber and character, and they treat everyone in a chivalrous manner because that is who they are. Men that are truly chivalrous gentlemen do not turn their character on and off like a light switch or only be a gentleman to certain people, at certain times. They are instead a chivalrous gentleman to everyone.
Day 9 – 40 Days of Rain on DBR Black Men: Parasites Moving In With a Girlfriend
DBR black men love the idea of moving in with a girlfriend. They want to come move in and roost in your hen house and see nothing wrong with enjoying the fruits of your labors while they sleep under a roof they haven’t provided, eating up food they haven’t provided, and running electricity to watch television and play video games when they haven’t provided any of those things either!
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