Why would someone want to appear to be something they are not? I believe everyone wants to appear to have their life together, to make smart choices, to be a success and a winner! Who wants to admit they made silly mistakes or gambled and lost – over and over again? Losers, that’s who!
Author John D. Husband explores the issue from both sides of the gender fence and explains why men need encouragement from women to approach and why men will go to such great lengths to avoid being humiliated, embarrassed, diminished, ridiculed, or told the truth.
Women often ask why men break things off, or do something really stupid that causes a self-respecting woman to give him the boot, only to see him turn around, and beg to come back. Why, why, why?
You want the security of knowing where you stand in a relationship, but shouldn’t you first take the time to know the character and history of the man you are committing to?
Forty year old man dating woman he admits is perfect but who he may hurt badly because he wants fireworks, not solid commitment and love.
He is shocked and appalled to find out his girlfriend carries a knife everywhere she goes. So now she’s a crazy psycho?
Why do so many young women waste their youth and time in unhealthy relationships, seeking commitments from loser boyfriends?
Whether an angry, baby making hoochie, or a scripture quoting “good” woman, females at both ends of the spectrum of femininity are tiresome and boring. Both need to open their minds to new experiences and embrace the concept that a woman can be both intelligent and fun, spiritual and sexy – all at the same time. Tips for how to be an exciting woman that’s sometimes good, and sometimes not.
There is nothing wrong with saying you are afraid of something! Fear is a normal human emotion just like being angry, being sad, being happy. But the bottom line is women are AFRAID of being abandoned and behave accordingly, and men are AFRAID of being committed and losing options, and they behave accordingly as well. Each gender finds reasons to justify their behaviors and reasons for running away from commitment.
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