Deborrah
Veteran social researcher, relationship advice columnist, author and radio host. Author of hundreds of articles on American and black culture, gender issues, singles, dating and relationships. Author of "Sucka Free Love!" , "The 24 Types of Suckas to Avoid," "The Black Church - Where Women Pray and Men Pray," and "Why Vegan is the New Black" all available on Amazon.Com. Her unique voice and insightful commentary have delighted fans and riled haters for 20 years. Read her stuff on SurvivingDating.Com and AskHeartBeat.Com.
Deborrah's Latest Posts
Black Men – How to Love a Black Woman
A sad young man reflects on the errors he made in his former relationship and shares his newfound understanding to help other men avoid making the same mistakes.
10/23/10 – How to Spot a Loser!
Tonight we’ll discuss the questions you can ask and share experiences as well as tips on what to look for that will let you know he or she is a stone cold LOSER.
The Romantic Adventures of Sistah Girl
In the first video of the Sistah Girl series, she sits down and has a chat with the #1 man in her life about the future of their relationship. The catch is her boo thang just happens to be Bishop Eddie Long!
When He Won’t Take ‘No!’ for an Answer
No! is a complete sentence. Yet when told “No!” most men’s response is not “okay then” but instead “well, why not?” or “you’ll like it if you try it” or “come on!” This pressure puts females on the defensive and is really nothing but a denial of women’s right to say “NO!” Discussion of why men refuse to take no for an answer.
How Can I Know if He is Just Using Me for Sex?
It’s been a year and I never moved on. He’s not letting me move on. He calls and explains how hard it is for him to live without me and I believe him and take him back then he cheats on me. This has happened four times…
10-16-10 The Black Church and the Bible Keep Black Women Down
Can Black people accept that to break free of limitations placed on our minds, achievements and relationships by Christianity, it may require that we remove the Bible from our lives? Jeremiah Camara guests.
Research Survey: Preyed Upon in God’s House
Research survey on the predatory behaviors of men within our nation’s religious institutions. Instead of worshipping God, women/children are viewed as prey by child molesters and opportunists.
Richelle Carey CNN and Deborrah Cooper Discuss the Black Church
Richelle Carey of CNN’s Headline News interviews author Deborrah Cooper on how the Black church keeps Black women single and lonely. Click to listen!
The Pair and a Spare Dating Program
Women need to stop trying to be “good girls” and instead stand up for their rights when it comes to dating. Tell men straight up: “hey, I am dating around to find the right fit. You might be that guy, but until I spend more time with you and get to know you better, I am going to continue dating a few guys. You should do the same.”
Don’t Be Dumb by Falling for the Baby Momma Okey Doke
If he says “I love you” many females think they have a dream come true. In reality if he really wanted to be with you as a family man he would be doing things very differently. A man that loves and respects you does not set you up for the Dumb Baby Momma Okey Doke.
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