Deborrah

Veteran social researcher, relationship advice columnist, author and radio host. Author of hundreds of articles on American and black culture, gender issues, singles, dating and relationships. Author of "Sucka Free Love!" , "The 24 Types of Suckas to Avoid," "The Black Church - Where Women Pray and Men Pray," and "Why Vegan is the New Black" all available on Amazon.Com. Her unique voice and insightful commentary have delighted fans and riled haters for 20 years. Read her stuff on SurvivingDating.Com and AskHeartBeat.Com.

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Day 20 – 40 Days of Rain on DBR Black Men: Murdering Black Women for Shits and Giggles

| 12/06/2013 | Comments (19)
women killed by boyfriends

Why do black men feel it is okay to kill a woman because they feel rejected, are angry, depressed, feel hopeless, etc.? What is the motivating factor behind such a mentality towards the very women they claim to love? Why is the black community filled with so many immature men incapable of handling their feelings in some sort of sane manner?

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40 Days of Rain on DBR Black Men – Black Males Obsessed With Ghetto Baby Mamas

| 12/05/2013 | Comments (14)
40 Days of Rain on DBR Black Men - Black Males Obsessed With Ghetto Baby Mamas

It’s not the thug dudes who are obsessed with ShaQuanisha, it’s these so called “good black men” who live, sleep and dream about her. It’s clear that these “good black men” strongly and passionately desire ShaQuanisha — that’s why they talk about her so much.

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Black Men, Low Expectations and Embracing Mediocrity

| 11/24/2013 | Comments (20)
young black man questions

Young black men are in a crisis and falling behind educationally, economically, emotionally and socially. Why are their expectations for themselves so low? Why is there such a willingness to settle for mediocrity instead of striving to achieve greatness head and shoulders above the crowd?

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Big Booty, Onion Booty, Phat Booty, Bubble Butt

| 11/22/2013 | Comments (0)
Big Booty, Onion Booty, Phat Booty, Bubble Butt

Butts are the IN thing. Single women who believe they don’t measure up in the butt department are going through some pretty drastic measures to get the booty they feel will make them more competitive in the dating game. But many of the things women do to get the perfect butt involves expensive, sometimes life-threatening procedures.

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Black Women With White Men Interracial Relationships

| 11/17/2013 | Comments (24)
Black Women With White Men Interracial Relationships

Why did black women get upset when I created a meme showing happy, loved black women in interracial relationships with Asian, white and Latino men, and come soldiering along to rally for black men to get equal time?

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Men Never Outgrow Their Childhood Fascination With Bodily Functions

| 10/21/2013 | Comments (2)
Men Never Outgrow Their Childhood Fascination With Bodily Functions

What is it with men and their fascination with farting, burping, scratching, pooping and picking their nose? Do they ever grow out of this phase?

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Protected: Hilarious Prank Video

| 09/18/2013 | Comments (0)
Hilarious Prank Video

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Help! My Boyfriend Wants to Share Me With Other Guys!

| 09/14/2013 | Comments (2)
Help! My Boyfriend Wants to Share Me With Other Guys!

Advice seeker thinks her boyfriend wants to “share her” with other guys, but Ms. HeartBeat sees a sociopath sex trafficker working on a naive and unaware potential victim of pimp game.

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If You Are Denied Access to An Abortion or the Morning After Pill

| 08/30/2013 | Comments (2)
If You Are Denied Access to An Abortion or the Morning After Pill

Latest reports say that from 2010 to 2013, 57 abortion clinics have been closed across the United States. This means that millions of women have reduced or no access to safe termination of an unwanted pregnancy. However, there are alternatives.

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Pakistan, Afghanistan or Blackistan: For Women its All The Same

| 08/28/2013 | Comments (18)
Pakistan, Afghanistan or Blackistan: For Women its All The Same

I’ve been followed, grabbed, cornered, berated and forced to kiss someone. It’s happened so often that it doesn’t even feel like my body is really my body anymore. The world is a museum of flesh and I am merely one of the many displays to be oogled at by men.

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Guess What Ms. HeartBeat – I’m Dating a Stripper!

| 07/19/2013 | Comments (1)
Guess What Ms. HeartBeat - I'm Dating a Stripper!

Do you think we can have a healthy and lengthy relationship? I really don’t have a problem with where she works if I don’t think about it too much. I mean if we started dating before she started stripping and she told me she wanted to be a stripper, I would totally be against it. But since it’s what she was doing when I met her, I accept it because I feel that I don’t have the right to change her or ask her to change.

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He Ain’t Stella But He’s Trying to Get His Groove Back!

| 07/16/2013 | Comments (0)
Woman suffering from rhetoric fatigue syndrome

How much of an age difference is too much? This writer wants to know if a 24 year old woman and a 43 year old man have a chance at happiness together.

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