Veteran social researcher, relationship advice columnist, author and radio host. Author of hundreds of articles on American and black culture, gender issues, singles, dating and relationships. Author of "Sucka Free Love!" , "The 24 Types of Suckas to Avoid," "The Black Church - Where Women Pray and Men Pray," and "Why Vegan is the New Black" all available on Amazon.Com. Her unique voice and insightful commentary have delighted fans and riled haters for 20 years. Read her stuff on SurvivingDating.Com and AskHeartBeat.Com.

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Single Women: Satisfy Your Horniness Without Being a ‘Ho

. 06/02/2009 . 0 Comments

Traditional thinking promotes commitment, fidelity and love as mandatory components to a romantic relationship. Does such thinking make sense in our current society? Is it really necessary to have and to hold until death do you part? Can’t a single woman enjoy guilt-free pleasure with a man, get up, and leave further expectations on the pillow?

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Time to Dismantle The Jump Off

. 05/30/2009 . 2 Comments

I hate texting.   A few months ago I met a guy that seemed really cool.  Tall, good looking, single father raising his daughter, well educated, with a great family and job.  We went out on one lunch date, then talked on the phone a few times.  He was wonderful face to face and fine […]

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Interracial Dating: Black Men with Non-Black Women

. 05/26/2009 . 1 Comment

Over the past 10 years, the numbers of African American women that have dated and married White men has dramatically increased. I believe a lot of it has to do with the fact that Black women are tired of waiting for Black men to choose them, to commit, to love.

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You Don’t Know HOW To Date!

. 05/26/2009 . 0 Comments

The last U.S. Census report stated that for the first time in the history of the U.S., we have a higher population of single adults in this country than we do married.  Are most of us single by choice – finding a life of aloneness to be preferable?  Or are we stymied by our lack […]

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Strong Reasons Make Strong Actions

. 05/21/2009 . 0 Comments

 "Strong reasons make strong actions." — William Shakespeare (1564-1616)   Did ole Willy have to date?  I believe the whole mating thing was done a bit differently back in his day.  My understanding is that one’s parents figured out who might be a good match for the family as a whole, then you were "assigned" […]

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Fart Etiquette At The Gym

. 05/10/2009 . 0 Comments

Farting while exercising is a common problem. Here’s how to handle flatulence, gas and smelly farts while working out at the gym.

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I Need a Break from Dating

. 05/10/2009 . 1 Comment

When I think about going on a date I no longer get excited. Nor do I wonder if he could be \”the one.\” What I think now about dating is: \”Crap! Do I have to?\”

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