Deborrah

Veteran social researcher, relationship advice columnist, author and radio host. Author of hundreds of articles on American and black culture, gender issues, singles, dating and relationships. Author of "Sucka Free Love!" , "The 24 Types of Suckas to Avoid," "The Black Church - Where Women Pray and Men Pray," and "Why Vegan is the New Black" all available on Amazon.Com. Her unique voice and insightful commentary have delighted fans and riled haters for 20 years. Read her stuff on SurvivingDating.Com and AskHeartBeat.Com.

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Bitch Made “Good Men” In the Dating Pool

| 06/25/2009 | Comments (3)

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Bitch Made “Good Men” In the Dating Pool

I’m tired of men that feel they are “Good men” touting their goodness like it’s a badge of honor, a trophy, something that entitles them to more or better or what they want. In the mating game your “goodness” means absolutely nothing. You telling women over and over why we should pick you instead of the exciting, sexy, fun guy makes you sound like a whining punk. Here are my reasons why I and a great many women totally ignore “good guys” when choosing a man.

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Why Did The Almighty Waste Ears on Men When They Never Listen Anyway?

| 06/24/2009 | Comments (0)
Why Did The Almighty Waste Ears on Men When They Never Listen Anyway?

Men wonder why women file for 75% of the divorces in this country. It seems that men just don’t understand how important communication and listening skills are to the quality and duration of their relationships with women. Whether in a personal or professional setting, men need to learn how to HEAR women, not just the words we say but the message we are communicating about how we FEEL.

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What a Black Man Needs in a Relationship

| 06/23/2009 | Comments (0)

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What a Black Man Needs in a Relationship

Just like Freud (who admittedly never could figure out what women wanted), women don’t understand men and what their relationship needs are! But I have the answer, and it’s very simple.

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Older Woman/Younger Man… How Old is TOO Old?

| 06/19/2009 | Comments (4)

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Older Woman/Younger Man… How Old is TOO Old?

The best relationships take place between older women and mature younger men. Women exercise, eat better, and involve themselves in a wide variety of satisfying social activities long into their senior years. Women look better as they age, and live longer as well. Really, women are more suited for dating younger men, and every woman over 35 should let her Inner Cougar out!

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Strange Life Lessons Movies Have Taught Us

| 06/18/2009 | Comments (0)

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Strange Life Lessons Movies Have Taught Us

  During all police investigations it will be necessary to visit a strip joint at least once.  All beds have special L-shaped top sheets which reach up to armpit level on a woman but only to waist level on the man lying beside her.  It’s easy for anyone to land a plane providing there is […]

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You’re Either Part of the Solution, Or Part of the Problem

| 06/16/2009 | Comments (0)
You’re Either Part of the Solution, Or Part of the Problem

Fear is epidemic in our society. I’ve never seen so many scary ass people! Millions of people sit on the bench in the game of life, holding onto their fears of success like a security blanket while telling themselves over and over again what they “can’t” accomplish, “can’t” change, “can’t” become or “can’t” try for fear of failure.

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Why Are So Many Women Opting to STAY Single?

| 06/12/2009 | Comments (5)

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Why Are So Many Women Opting to STAY Single?

The vision that most people have of marriage and what they expect to get out of such a union is nothing but a mirage… a vision that they imagine exists but which does not and probably never has. Alvin Hollinger III and Deborrah Cooper give their gender-based opinions on single women and the issue of marriage.

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Why Won’t Men Say I LOVE YOU?

| 06/05/2009 | Comments (0)

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Why Won't Men Say I LOVE YOU?

Question:  Why won’t men say “I love you” to their girlfriends and wives?  These are sincere guys! They know they feel the love, and we know they do too. But they just won’t say the words we so badly want to hear.  WHY NOT??????   HE SAYS: So why don’t the men in your life SAY […]

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Are Black Men Judgmental Haters of Black Women?

| 06/04/2009 | Comments (1)

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Are Black Men Judgmental Haters of Black Women?

My Dad raised me to never worry about pleasing other people or to care what they thought about anything with regards to me. Too many women did not get that message, and bend themselves into pretzels with each new man they meet, trying in vain to be “good enough” for him. Women need to be whatever they want to be as long as they are happy and satisfied, and stop trying to be the fantasy woman of men’s dreams. It never works anyway.

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Single Women: Satisfy Your Horniness Without Being a ‘Ho

| 06/02/2009 | Comments (0)
Single Women: Satisfy Your Horniness Without Being a ‘Ho

Traditional thinking promotes commitment, fidelity and love as mandatory components to a romantic relationship. Does such thinking make sense in our current society? Is it really necessary to have and to hold until death do you part? Can’t a single woman enjoy guilt-free pleasure with a man, get up, and leave further expectations on the pillow?

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Time to Dismantle The Jump Off

| 05/30/2009 | Comments (2)

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Time to Dismantle The Jump Off

I hate texting.   A few months ago I met a guy that seemed really cool.  Tall, good looking, single father raising his daughter, well educated, with a great family and job.  We went out on one lunch date, then talked on the phone a few times.  He was wonderful face to face and fine […]

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Interracial Dating: Black Men with Non-Black Women

| 05/26/2009 | Comments (1)
Interracial Dating: Black Men with Non-Black Women

Over the past 10 years, the numbers of African American women that have dated and married White men has dramatically increased. I believe a lot of it has to do with the fact that Black women are tired of waiting for Black men to choose them, to commit, to love.

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