Deborrah
Veteran social researcher, relationship advice columnist, author and radio host. Author of hundreds of articles on American and black culture, gender issues, singles, dating and relationships. Author of "Sucka Free Love!" , "The 24 Types of Suckas to Avoid," "The Black Church - Where Women Pray and Men Pray," and "Why Vegan is the New Black" all available on Amazon.Com. Her unique voice and insightful commentary have delighted fans and riled haters for 20 years. Read her stuff on SurvivingDating.Com and AskHeartBeat.Com.
Deborrah's Latest Posts
Black Women, Relationships and Growing Up Without a Dad
Do black women that grow up without a father in the home lack the understanding of what it means to “let a man be a man?” Is that something fathers teach daughters that help ensure a successful relationship?
He felt love at first sight, but she sees him as just a friend
He fell for her when they met at the age of 12 and has never given up hope that they would end up together though she claims he is just a friend. How can he get the girl of his dreams?
The ABC’s of Dating – 10 Tips for Getting the Ball Rolling in Romance!
A great article by advice columnist Deborrah Cooper which answers 10 frequently asked dating questions: What should I be looking for? What does dating mean really? I’m very shy and don’t know what to talk about on a date! Are men always obligated to pay? How long should the date last…I don’t want to wear out my welcome! How can I know if this is someone I should see again or leave alone?
How Dating is a Sport… Just Like Fishing!
Have any of you ladies ever gone hunting or fishing? You should try it sometimes. Fishing alongside your man provides you with a study in patience, planning and understanding the wierd workings of the male mind.
Women’s Self Esteem Attacked to Make a Buck
There is a social attack on women’s bodies and self esteem, with the everyday women being compared in looks and performance to porn stars. Who stands to profit from women feeling bad about themselves? Advice columnist Deborrah Cooper provides her usual insightful analysis into several disturbing new trends that affect women and their bodies.
Single Women: Avoid the Dream Weaving Lover
The Magical Dream Weaving lover fills your head full of possibilities and promises, but he never actually busts a grape to make anything he says a reality. Learn how to recognize this type of guy!
Breaking Up on the Down Low – How and Why Men Sneak Out of Relationships
He doesn’t want to be the bad guy and experience a direct confrontation. Men hope you won’t notice that he’s on his way out, and sadly, many women don’t!
Pro-Life, Pro-Choice or Pro-Abortion?
Should unmarried women involved in uncommitted sexual relationships opt for an abortion or have a baby? Advice columnist Deborrah Cooper discusses the pro-life movement’s true agenda regarding gaining control of the wombs of young, poor, black and brown women.
Divorced Single Mom Experiences Dating Drama
Divorced single Mom’s attempts to have a romantic life and find a new man meet resistance from six year old daughter.
Is He Using You?
When deeply in love, it can be easy to blur healthy boundaries. But being in love doesn’t mean being a fool for a user. Five ways to know if you are being used!
Mom’s Best Relationship Advice and Tips for Finding Love
A mother’s influence is very important in forming not only who and what we are, but who and what we ultimately become, how we view the world and how we relate to others. This article explores how parental influence shapes our expectation about love.
If Your Girlfriend is Married or Has a Man, You Better Watch What You Tell Her
Women need to stop telling their men their girl’s business. You are rattling off at the mouth and giving your man the inside track on how to get into your girl’s head and thus, into her panties.
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