Do You Understand My Boyfriend?
I recently told my boyfriend that I am not initiating lovemaking any more because I am so tired of him rejecting me. Do you know why he would keep doing this?
I recently told my boyfriend that I am not initiating lovemaking any more because I am so tired of him rejecting me. Do you know why he would keep doing this?
The most abusive men are those that feel the most powerless, least confident, and most insecure about their accomplishments or abilities. In the U.S. those men are for the most part, Black men. Part 1 of 2 on emotional abuse and emotionally abusive men.
Ladies, watch out for men that present themselves as saviors and advisors for Black women. They blame the black woman for the demise of the black community, sexual promiscuity, single parent homes, fatherless children and for everything negative they can think of when it comes to the breakdown in relations between black women and men without assigning any accountability to the black man.
My lobby against women having children has begun. You ladies limit your options when you are saddled down with some knucklehead’s child. You give him power over you to drag you into court, something to threaten to take from you, something he can hurt in a twisted attempt to hurt you. When you have children and are raising them alone, you will end up broke and tied down. You cannot go out and have fun anymore because you have responsibilities. You end up overwhelmed, frustrated, and often viewed by other men as being unworthy of being anything more than a roll in the hay because now you are “used goods.”
This article outlines five tactics abusive men use regularly to derail your confidence and prevent you from voicing an opinion about his nasty words, his disrespectful behavior or his sexist thinking. The bottom line goal for Black men of this type is to belittle and insult you so much that you shut down. He wants to be able to treat you any way he likes, and for you to take it without complaint.
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