Deborrah

Veteran social researcher, relationship advice columnist, author and radio host. Author of hundreds of articles on American and black culture, gender issues, singles, dating and relationships. Author of "Sucka Free Love!" , "The 24 Types of Suckas to Avoid," "The Black Church - Where Women Pray and Men Pray," and "Why Vegan is the New Black" all available on Amazon.Com. Her unique voice and insightful commentary have delighted fans and riled haters for 20 years. Read her stuff on SurvivingDating.Com and AskHeartBeat.Com.

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Ten Traits Men Must Have to Be a Great Husband

| 02/15/2012 | Comments (0)
Ten Traits Men Must Have to Be a Great Husband

What are the qualities that make a man a wonderful husband? Join us for a lively discussion of the traits of a fun boyfriend and how they differ from what a woman should be looking for in a man that make him a dependable, loving husband.

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Your Selfishness is Not Making the Coochie Wet

| 02/14/2012 | Comments (8)
Your Selfishness is Not Making the Coochie Wet

Black men have the right to be selfish and talk shit about Valentine’s Day if you want to – nobody is stopping you. But don’t say nothin when your selfishness hurts your woman. When she doesn’t want you to touch her, and certainly doesn’t want to share her coochie with you, it will be your own fault.

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Why Does My Boyfriend Always Claim to be Broke?

| 02/11/2012 | Comments (3)
Why Does My Boyfriend Always Claim to be Broke?

At first he treated her like a queen with romantic dinners and wine at sunset on the beach; but now he claims to be broke, even the day after payday. What kind of pimp game is this running?

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Match.Com’s Singles Survey Means Nothing for Black Women

| 02/08/2012 | Comments (1)
Match.Com’s Singles Survey Means Nothing for Black Women

Though the Match.Com 2012 Singles Survey is an impressive undertaking, I would caution Black women to avoid viewing the findings as anything more than humorous entertainment. This is a study primarily of White people for White people, and therefore it has little to do with the very real cultural differences in values and socialization of African Americans.

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When Valentine’s Day Sucks!

| 02/08/2012 | Comments (0)
When Valentine's Day Sucks!

The day after Valentine’s Day is the #1 day of the year for women to cheat. With that fact in mind, why do so many men stubbornly refuse to romance their woman and show appreciation on Valentine’s Day?

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Valentine’s Day and Selfish Ass Men

| 02/05/2012 | Comments (83)
Some men resent Cupid and have killed Valentine's Day romance

Why do so many single Black men resent Valentine’s Day and refuse to do anything special for the woman they claim to love? Why do so many Black women accept being ignored on Valentine’s Day by their man?

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Margaret Sanger and the Eradication of the Black Race Using Planned Parenthood

| 02/04/2012 | Comments (5)
Margaret Sanger and the Eradication of the Black Race Using Planned Parenthood

Margaret Sanger has been accused by Black men of starting Planned Parenthood for the sole purpose of eradicating the black race. Are Black women to be denied the right to birth control and abortions to satisfy the demands of black nationalists?

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Cheating in Relationships – Three Days of the Year Women Are Most Likely to Cheat

| 02/03/2012 | Comments (1)
Cheating in Relationships - Three Days of the Year Women Are Most Likely to Cheat

Smart men pay attention to their women. Those that don’t are likely to find out the hard way that their woman is getting her needs met elsewhere. There are three days of each year that women are more prone to cheating, and Valentine’s Day is one of them.

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Tips for Men How to Be a Better Lover

| 02/01/2012 | Comments (0)
Tips for Men How to Be a Better Lover

How can men divorce proof their relationships? Putting in time, energy and effort to understand a woman’s body and sexual intimacy needs will go a long way towards lowering the divorce rate and becoming a better lover. Arrogance has no place in the bedroom fellas. Listen and learn!

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Black Women Need to Help a Brotha and Date Single Black Men With Potential?

| 01/28/2012 | Comments (4)
Black Women Need to Help a Brotha and Date Single Black Men With Potential?

Black women must stop believing they are required to “work with a brotha” when said Black male is beneath her, lagging, lacking in certain vital areas of performance and qualifications. Black women deserve to have what they want and need in a mate, just like women of other races.

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Why Do Black Men Always Ask Me if I Go to Church?

| 01/25/2012 | Comments (2)
Why Do Black Men Always Ask Me if I Go to Church?

What kind of game is being run by Black men that ask if a woman goes to church immediately upon meeting her? You don’t know the game? Read and learn baby girl, read and learn.

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Female Submission in Dating and Marriage: Why Should Women Submit to Men?

| 01/24/2012 | Comments (4)
Female Submission in Dating and Marriage: Why Should Women Submit to Men?

Tonight we’ll discuss female submission in Black relationships, the pros and cons of submission if any, and the reasons Black men demand that Black women submit to them. Who really benefits from submission by women?

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