Deborrah

Veteran social researcher, relationship advice columnist, author and radio host. Author of hundreds of articles on American and black culture, gender issues, singles, dating and relationships. Author of "Sucka Free Love!" , "The 24 Types of Suckas to Avoid," "The Black Church - Where Women Pray and Men Pray," and "Why Vegan is the New Black" all available on Amazon.Com. Her unique voice and insightful commentary have delighted fans and riled haters for 20 years. Read her stuff on SurvivingDating.Com and AskHeartBeat.Com.

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Daughter Was Fighting at School

| 11/10/2011 | Comments (0)
Daughter Was Fighting at School

When your daughter gets punched in the face at school after defending herself from a boy’s attack, is it right for her to be punished?

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What Black Women Need to Be Happy

| 11/10/2011 | Comments (14)
What Black Women Need to Be Happy

Black women are tired of hearing Black men say that we are bitter, unhappy, or that we alone are responsible for the high numbers of single family homes and fatherless children. We’re not. Black women are tired of the bullshit, the blaming, the failure of men to step up to take responsibility for the mistakes they’ve made. We, just like women of other races, deserve to have a decent, loving, committed and honorable man in our arms. We deserve wonderful fathers for our children. We deserve to have respectful Black men be our husbands as well our lovers. Where are these men?

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Sexual Double Standards and The Virtuous Woman

| 11/06/2011 | Comments (2)
Sexual Double Standards and The Virtuous Woman

Black men pass down, from generation to generation a mentality that judges and condemns women based on what has happened with one part of her body. When are men going to grow up?

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Can Church Help a Cheating Alcoholic Change?

| 11/04/2011 | Comments (1)
Can Church Help a Cheating Alcoholic Change?

With his marriage in shambles, an alcoholic cheating husband takes to church and religion – but will that really help long-term?

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Should Black Women Feel Sorry for Kris Humphries? Hell to the Naw!

| 11/02/2011 | Comments (3)
Should Black Women Feel Sorry for Kris Humphries? Hell to the Naw!

Noting the double standard in which allows Black men to judge the sexual behaviors and number of partners of Black women harshly, while completely ignoring the sexual past of White women. What’s that all about?

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Men Are All The Same

| 10/26/2011 | Comments (9)
Men Are All The Same

Men are all the same. They like to believe they are special and unique, but reality is rules and guidelines for “manhood” are so rigid that men are actually all the same.

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Dating Tips for Single Women: Men Must Pay For Dates

| 10/22/2011 | Comments (0)
Dating Tips for Single Women: Men Must Pay For Dates

Many women feel guilty about a man paying for their dates; others don’t want to feel obligated in any way. But if you like a guy, refusing to allow him the opportunity to pamper you means you’re keeping him at arms length emotionally.

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Dating Tips for Men: Top 10 Ways to Know She’s Not Feeling You

| 10/20/2011 | Comments (0)
Dating Tips for Men: Top 10 Ways to Know She’s Not Feeling You

Sometimes a woman’s lack of interest is obvious to your friends, your family, even Stevie Wonder. Everyone can see that she’s not interested BUT you!

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How to Wear UGG Boots

| 10/19/2011 | Comments (2)
How to Wear UGG Boots

UGG boots are seen as ugly by many, but properly worn they can be a warm and functional fashion accessory. Here are a few tips on how to wear UGG boots, as well as how not to.

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Dating and Relationships – Are Most Black Men Sociopaths?

| 10/19/2011 | Comments (39)
Dating and Relationships - Are Most Black Men Sociopaths?

How many men exhibit the traits and attitudes of sociopaths towards women? Shockingly, it appears that the cheating, abusiveness, controlling attitudes and manipulative behaviors of men in relationships is straight out of the sociopath’s handbook!

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If at First You Don’t Succeed, Destroy All Evidence You Tried

| 10/14/2011 | Comments (0)
If at First You Don’t Succeed, Destroy All Evidence You Tried

Why would someone want to appear to be something they are not? I believe everyone wants to appear to have their life together, to make smart choices, to be a success and a winner! Who wants to admit they made silly mistakes or gambled and lost – over and over again? Losers, that’s who!

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Awww shit!

| 10/12/2011 | Comments (0)
Awww shit!

After much debate on which word in the English language was the most functional, we’ve come up with the winner!

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