Deborrah
Veteran social researcher, relationship advice columnist, author and radio host. Author of hundreds of articles on American and black culture, gender issues, singles, dating and relationships. Author of "Sucka Free Love!" , "The 24 Types of Suckas to Avoid," "The Black Church - Where Women Pray and Men Pray," and "Why Vegan is the New Black" all available on Amazon.Com. Her unique voice and insightful commentary have delighted fans and riled haters for 20 years. Read her stuff on SurvivingDating.Com and AskHeartBeat.Com.
Deborrah's Latest Posts
It’s Really None of Your Fucking Business!
Some women tell not only all their business to their man, but the personal financial and sexual history of their friends and family members as well. Just because you are sleeping with him does not entitle him to know private personal business about you or others. Your blabbing could be creating serious problems!
Are Black Women Stupid? Part Two
Are black women stupid when it comes to men, money and telling their business? In part two of our Are Black Women Stupid? series, we examine what motivates black women to tell men they are not married to details about their income and finances.
Making it Legal to Sexually Assault Women and Molest Children
Around the nation men in power are lobbying for the decriminalization of sexual assault on women and children. Recognize what time it is and think about the many ways men are attempting to make it legal to sexually assault women and molest children.
Settling vs Compromising – Should Women Settle for Mr Good Enough?
Every woman has a checklist of what she wants in a man, but what things can you give up on your list and which things must stay? Some of the things women want are ridiculous, but others relating to morals and values should NEVER be compromised. How do you know the difference? Listen up!
Are Black Women Stupid?
Are black women stupid? When you see large numbers of black women putting down females while uplifting male interests, it becomes clear that there are a lot of black females who support patriarchy which means they are on the wrong side of the gender war.
Men With One Foot In One Foot Out of the Relationship
How should a woman handle a non-committal man with one foot in and one foot out of their relationship? Why is he stalling on a commitment? When should she draw the line and move on from this guy?
Settling vs Compromising – Should You Settle for “Good Enough”?
The concept of settling vs compromising in relationships explained by dating expert Deborrah Cooper who believes only the truly desperate think settling for what they don’t want is a great dating technique.
Dating Relationships: When Does Politeness End and the Farting Begin?
How long do you wait to break the politeness barrier and let fly with a pain relieving fart? I believe that the fewer barriers to true intimacy, understanding and acceptance there are between a couple, the more likely their relationship is to develop closeness and to last.
Spare the Rod and Spoil the Child – Neither Biblical nor Proper Parenting
Around the nation black women ran to the defense of Creflo Dollar, saying he was justified in assaulting his daughter. After all, the bible instructs parents never to “spare the rod and spoil the child!” so there was no crime. In reality that phrase is nowhere in the bible.
Domestic Violence Prevention Month – Murdered Women and Children
In January 2009 this young woman and her infant daughter were gunned down in a tragic case of domestic violence. Since then hundreds of thousands of women and children have been abused and murdered by violent, angry men. Domestic violence must be stopped.
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