Podcast by columnist Deborrah Cooper which explains why Steve Harvey and his book Act Like a Lady Think Like a Man are a waste of time for a woman seeking a loving relationship based on mutual love and support.
Why do so many men turn every decision women make that protects their heart or body from being used for sex by players into being an attack on them? Why are women not allowed the right to say “no sex!” to men that they are merely dating because rushing to intimacy is not good for HER?
Have your copy of The Black Church Where Women Pray and Men Prey autographed by Deborrah Cooper when you pre-order by May 25, 2012.
Sexually incompatible with her boyfriend’s interest in group sex, bisexuality and porn, a confused and very hurt girlfriend wonders if she should dump him and move on now, or stay and work it out.
How should a woman handle a friendship that turned sexual with a guy she’s known for years when he has no real interest in moving things along to a true committed relationship?
Young woman engaged to be married in a few weeks is distrustful of her fiancee due to his repeated denial that he watches porn, though his computer history says otherwise.
Why do so many relationship experts tell single women that they must train men – grown men now, how to treat them? Especially when these guys already know how to treat a woman when in reality some men choose to be ratchet instead of respectful!
“Can’t turn a ho into a housewife!” Men need to learn to choose what works best for them which is most likely going to be a freaky wild ho that delivers sexual experiences that make his toes curl, not an apron wearing, cookie baking housewife.
Who should pay for dates? Many black women believe they should pay half because when a man pays he expects something in return or that it gives him power. I disagree but what do you say?
Some men place sole responsibility for keeping marriage exciting on their wife. A 20+ yr husband says stop whining and MAN UP! To create the marriage you want guys, you gotta lead the way.
Guest blogger Greg Michelsen explains how the traits of Alpha males (confidence and excitement) are attractive to women, enabling Alpha males to snag the best for themselves, leaving the rest for losers!
No matter what your reason is for giving a gift, it is not the woman’s responsibility to prevent YOUR spending, or to anticipate YOUR unrealistic expectations. Dating costs must be borne by men, and any gift given must be given freely without expectations of a return.
Controversial new book on the modern black church and the false prophets that lead them. How black women are manipulated and preyed upon in black churches for their time, energy, money and bodies.
The differences in parenting styles between a Black Momma and a White Mom are discussed and analyzed. Can you relate?
Single parents and their children often live in poverty. Article provides tips and suggestions for how single parents can get financial assistance in these troubling times.
Don’t black women understand that the joke is on them and Steve Harvey is laughing all the way to the bank? Join us for an interesting dissection of Steve’s dating advice book “Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man” analyzed in a way you have never heard before!
Are black men socialized to focus on swaggar, macho and street-thug behavior as their measure of manhood? What behaviors and attitudes constitute manhood to Black men? What makes a Black man a man?
Is there a war between single black men and women? Director Adam Butler believes there is! He stops by the show to talk about the state of single men and women in Black America, and what he hopes his film project will accomplish in healing that rift.
You may not fall in love on the second date, but you’ll definitely be able to get a better sense of whether your date is a potentially suitable match.
How to handle first date getting to know you questions. The machine gun rapid fire questioning might not be the best approach, and here’s why.
Discussion of the pros and cons of telling the new man in your life about past the sexual adventures, an abortion, or STDs. If its in the past, that’s where it should stay and a woman should never tell her secrets Deborrah says. What’s your stance?
Text messaging isn’t necessarily a tool of the devil, but there can be quite a bit of misinterpretation and miscommunication if you don’t follow texting rules. Texting is a great way to stay connected to someone you are madly in love with, and a useful tool to touch base with casual or new dating partners. Ten great texting rules for proper dating etiquette for singles.
Swirling is a new relationship guide for black women looking to make the jump into the world of interracial relationships. Full of tips for success and answers to the questions you’ve always wanted to know the answers to but were afraid to ask.
Besides being forced to give a man sex at knife or gunpoint, are there other coercive behaviors that men use that constitute rape? The answer is YES! Read this list and learn what men do and say that means they are raping you.
Author Deborrah Cooper’s latest book The Black Church: Where Women Pray and Men Prey reveals the manipulative mind games of prosperity preachers and child molesters within the Black churches of America.
When couples have sex, have babies, and live together before marriage, what sense does it make for them to have a giant fancy wedding complete with a wedding gift registry?
Advice columnist Deborrah Cooper regularly posts witty tidbits with insightful wisdom on dating and life. We’ve collected dozens of them from around the web, and share a few with you in this post.
The crass crudeness of some people is examined when a family’s website to memorialize a deceased member of their clan is bombarded with negativity.
What do women want from men and relationships? Survey collects the desires, thoughts and opinions of women about what makes them happy and what they wish men would understand about making their relationships better.
Does a man with wavy hair and a body like Tyson sound like husband material? A young black woman with no clue about how to select a man for marriage writes to seek guidance on her relationship.
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