Courting vs. dating…Is courting dead? Courting needs to make a comeback because too many men press for sexual intimacy with a woman they know little to nothing about while avoiding commitment and marriage.
What would you do if you had first hand proof that your best friend was being cheated on? Would you tell it immediately, pretend you didn’t see anything and stay out of it, or approach the cheater yourself?
A real life example of how compromise can be an injurious thing for a woman’s self-esteem and treatment in a relationship. When is it okay to compromise and when should a woman stand her ground?
At first he treated her like a queen with romantic dinners and wine at sunset on the beach; but now he claims to be broke, even the day after payday. What kind of pimp game is this running?
An unusual request has a young man wondering if his roommate is hiding his sexuality. Can a young man that beds dozens of women have hidden gay tendencies or fantasies?
To avoid being scammed or suffering identity theft, Ms. HeartBeat advises women to keep financial and sexual info to themselves. A reader is livid and says she is telling women to lie to men that deserve to know all a woman’s business. Can men really handle the truth about a woman’s past?
Humorous examination of how men don’t listen to women, which is why men don’t make the best relationship advice columnists.
Why do so many single Black men resent Valentine’s Day and refuse to do anything special for the woman they claim to love? Why do so many Black women accept being ignored on Valentine’s Day by their man?
What are some of the things women say that make men break out into a cold sweat and shiver with anxiety? Here’s our list of the top dozen or so phrases women say that fill men with dread.
How can men divorce proof their relationships? Putting in time, energy and effort to understand a woman’s body and sexual intimacy needs will go a long way towards lowering the divorce rate and becoming a better lover. Arrogance has no place in the bedroom fellas. Listen and learn!
Though every woman is different, there are certain standards a man must meet, and basic qualities that a man must possess in order to be considered suitable husband material.
Guest blogger Scottie Lowe hits Black men hard with a no nonsense analysis of the challenges of manhood, most of which Black men bring on themselves.
Black men have the right to be selfish and talk shit about Valentine’s Day if you want to – nobody is stopping you. But don’t say nothin when your selfishness hurts your woman. When she doesn’t want you to touch her, and certainly doesn’t want to share her coochie with you, it will be your own fault.
Though the Match.Com 2012 Singles Survey is an impressive undertaking, I would caution Black women to avoid viewing the findings as anything more than humorous entertainment. This is a study primarily of White people for White people, and therefore it has little to do with the very real cultural differences in values and socialization of African Americans.
Smart men pay attention to their women. Those that don’t are likely to find out the hard way that their woman is getting her needs met elsewhere. There are three days of each year that women are more prone to cheating, and Valentine’s Day is one of them.
Are black men socialized to focus on swaggar, macho and street-thug behavior as their measure of manhood? What behaviors and attitudes constitute manhood to Black men? What makes a Black man a man?
The day after Valentine’s Day is the #1 day of the year for women to cheat. With that fact in mind, why do so many men stubbornly refuse to romance their woman and show appreciation on Valentine’s Day?
Margaret Sanger has been accused by Black men of starting Planned Parenthood for the sole purpose of eradicating the black race. Are Black women to be denied the right to birth control and abortions to satisfy the demands of black nationalists?
A young man writes to seek advice about a problem in his sex life. He wants his girl to do things that she says makes her gag and disgust her. He is frustrated beyond all belief. Can this relationship be saved… should it be?
Many males believe they are owed female attention and a positive response when they approach a woman on the street. The reality is that the woman you are talking to does not know if you are a creeper or a rapist and will treat you accordingly. She can’t see inside your head, and does not know your intentions.
Black women must stop believing they are required to “work with a brotha” when said Black male is beneath her, lagging, lacking in certain vital areas of performance and qualifications. Black women deserve to have what they want and need in a mate, just like women of other races.
Talk radio discussion of the many types of lies singles and married couples tell their intimate partners, and why lying is tolerated by women. In certain social settings, lying is actually encouraged! How does lying affect trust and commitment in relationships?
What kind of game is being run by Black men that ask if a woman goes to church immediately upon meeting her? You don’t know? Read and learn baby girl, read and learn.
Tonight we’ll discuss female submission in Black relationships, the pros and cons of submission if any, and the reasons Black men demand that Black women submit to them. Who really benefits from submission by women?
Can polygamous marriages really be the answer to the large numbers of single African American women in the U.S.? Black men say yes and that polygyny should be legalized. What do you have to say about polygyny – a man having more than one wife?
What is your stance on polygyny and polygamous marriages? Is polygamy really a viable solution to the high number of single Black women in the U.S. or just a game Black men want to play for sex?
Single woman dating and in love with a married man is apparently confused about her role in his life, so she writes to complain about a lack of trust and feeling used.
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